Thursday, June 25, 2015

*Jayden is ONE*

ABUNDANT...every single day...IS ABUNDANT!

If I could sum up this past year in one word - that would be the one.  Jesus came so that we could have this ABUNDANT LIFE but it's a choice of daily pursuing God, renewing our mind, and allowing Him to be the source of our FAITH.

While it is hard to believe Jayden turned ONE on Sunday, June 7th - I can look back over this past year and be incredibly thankful that I have enjoyed the day to day moments being his mom and watching him change and grow into a little boy. 

Let's just sum up the change from 11 months to a year old :)

  • Jayden is so full of life and so expressive (just like Rance). I am so blessed to be Jayden's mom and Rance's wife. 
  • Jayden is fearless and adventurous!  I could show you video after video of him doing things that seem INSANE.  Sometimes I have to just close my eyes and pray for protection because I see how hard and awesome it's going to be to parent a CRAZY BOY!  He will climb onto anything, can EASILY slide off of the chair or bed (very meticulously without falling), climbs up and down stairs, and the list goes on.  He loves to try to figure out how to do something so I constantly must keep my eye on him.
  • He literally copies everything we do.  We always talk to him and tell him what we are doing but to watch him COPY and repeat later on is absolutely fascinating.  For example, when we get home everyday we always water the flowers.  One weekend when we were getting home from a weekend of travel - Jayden walks through the garage, picks up the flower watering can and heads out of the garage straight to the flowers and begins watering them.  He will copy us brushing our teeth, brushing our hair, and the list goes on.  He wants to do whatever we are doing. 
 


  • He also wants to HELP do everything.  If I am vacuuming, he wants to.  He continues to love to vacuum, sweep, mop, etc.
 

  • He loves to HIGH FIVE and say 'wooooo!'
  • A couple of weeks before he turned 11 months old - he began taking several steps by himself and it wasn't long after that he began walking all over the place (about 11 1/2 months).  We have had many bumps and bruises since :)
  • He has basically been sleeping from 8 to 8:30 until 5:45 to 6:15 this last month.  I've decided he is like his mom - he's an early riser!  He wakes up ready to take on the day; however, within an hour and a half or 2 hours of being up - he still sleeps about an hour in the mornings and then his 2 hour nap from 12 to 2! 
  • Adding to his fearless/adventurous self - Jayden is VERY determined.  While one of my best friends encourages me that this is a WONDERFUL thing - it is also proving to be difficult when it comes to discipline because his determination is so strong he is not a big fan of mama stopping or intervening in his determination!  Sometimes I think the pop on his hand is worth it in his mind to continue doing what he really wants to do.
  • Speaking of discipline - some days I can feel like he listens so well and other days it is as if he deliberately ignores me.  Oh me - I am constantly reminded of the Father's patience with us and that until Jayden is 4 to 5 years old - we will continuously be teaching him about authority - I know that consistency with this is key!
  • He drinks water LIKE A BOSS!

  • He loves to eat - can't you tell by those cheeks!?  He loves all things fruit - watermelon, canteloupe, strawberries but I still think bananas are his favorite.  He loves his green beans and corn too.  He's a big fan of cheerios, fruit smoothies, cheetos, wheat thins, crackers,  raisins and his whole grain blueberry waffles!  He is FINALLY enjoying eggs more too - especially when I sprinkle a little cheese on top.


  • One of my favorite times of day is first thing in the morning when we sit beside each other either on the couch or outside on the porch and eat our breakfast together. 

  • Since Jayden loves to climb and stand in anything and everything, I had to make it a priority to make sure he knows that when he is eating he must 'sit down'.  It's so funny because he will sit down so quickly when I tell him too but within minutes he is standing back up and we go through it all over again. He knows unless his butt is seated, he will not get food!
  • He basically drinks milk 4 times a day still - around 6, 10, 2 to 3 and 8 at night.  We are transitioning off breastmilk stricly to WHOLE MILK since he is allowed to have that now (woohoo!). 
  • He loves tractors, trucks, balls, and ALL animals.  Speaking of the tractor, since he cannot reach the peddle - over the last month he has figured out how to make it go by standing on the side of it :)  Lord help us!



Here he goes...yes, he is moving in this picture!


 
  • He loves to scoot down the HUGE HILL at our house and then climb back up it and PUSH his bullet up the hill (he is a beast). He also loves to throw things down it and watch them roll to the bottom (like his dump truck). I cannot tell you how many times I've run down the hill to fetch and back up it again. OH MY WORD. If you have not seen the hill I'm talking about then you have no idea the intensity of this climb. 
  • Rance's mom bought Jayden this little bullet and IT IS BASICALLY one of his favorite things.  Remember it was pink and Rance painted it black?!


  • He really don't need his paci much anymore but over the last couple of days more teeth must be coming in because he is drooling a lot and has wanted to chew on that paci again. 
  • He continues to love his orange blanket from Aunt Rachel :)
  • HE WILL FINALLY wear shoes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • He takes more baths than I do.  Literally almost everyday we have to give him a bath b/c he is SO DIRTY - but we continue to have the philosophy that God made dirt and dirt won't hurt.
  • I love that we can talk to him and he understands what we are saying.  We have seen that he can literally say almost any word but sometimes he just chooses NOT to.  We can think he is regressing and then he'll just wing out all the words again so we know he can say them all.  He is a HOOT.
  • He loves going for long walks in the stroller!

  • No matter if he is fussy, having a bad moment, or whatever the case - you can say 'do you want to go outside?' and his face lights up and he smiles SO big.  We are very thankful for this because he's a big fan of outdoor activities like HIKING which you all know Rance and I love!


 
 



  • He knows what the bear says, ducks says, and dog says - we are expanding to other animals now (which he now knows the cat, owl, and working on the frog)! 
  • Jayden will pick men/boys over women/girls anyday!  I think he knows that generally men are more interesting and take him to do more fun/adventurous things than women.  Hello, it's hard being his mom and having to compete with the coolness of Rance (jk - i love it!).
  • He loves our neighbors kids! Kelly, in particular, always stops in on his dirt bike or commander and plays with jayden and will even take him for a ride.


I do feel as if I could write so much more...

...because there is so much more!!!

Here are the classic one year old chair pictures!  It does so much more than SIT still now :)  So that you get the full effect, I am posting a BUNCH from this 2 minute picture session...






















More to come on the 1st birthday par-tay!

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Quick Road trip to NaHuNta

The last weekend of May, we took a quick road trip to Nahunta to see my cousin CJ get married.  It was very fun family time and Jayden had a blast on the farm. 

Here we go road trippin'...




A little rehearsal dinner fun...
 
Jayden enjoying all things FUN outside with Pa (boy loves his Pa).



I am SO grateful for the extra time Mandy and I were FINALLY able to spend together on this trip! 


 
Since my parents house is under construction and my brother recently moved into his own place - we THOROUGHLY enjoyed staying with him on this trip!!!!!!



Love her!!!!!!!!!!!!

THREE MUSKETEERS!!!!!!



Oh just Jayden & Pa -these two are stuck together like glue!




 
Our attempt at a family photo was SUPER blurry but oh well :)

 
All of our family of 3 photos look like this - Jayden has NO time for being still and taking pictures!


 
 
I am pretty sure we gave some people a heart attack at the wedding!  After we ate at the reception - several people were inside hanging out or outside hanging, etc.  Once Jayden had had all he could of being still - we took him outside and before we knew it - he was climbing up and down a ditch (and yes we were all for it).  Some of the responses were super encouraging like "Oh I am so glad you let that boy have some fun and you let him just get dirty, thank God!" to the VERY opposite where you can see people's mouth dropped open wide that we are 'letting' him get dirty and doing so WITH JOY!  


 
Needless to say, he needed a major bath after the wedding he was so dirty (HEHE!) :)

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

*ReUnIoNs*

A couple of weekends ago, all the campers and leaders that went on the CFC 2015 trip over spring break got back together for a night of fun, food, fellowship, and digging into God's Word as a follow up to the trip.  It's always a JOY to have people over and even more of a JOY when you get to see others growing and pursuing the Lord.  I can only imagine how HIS heart overflows!


Fun & games of course...


 

Jayden enjoyed his spectator's view...





 

I bet you have NO idea that this little airplane below is actually PINK do you?!?!  Rance's mom brought it to our house for Jayden and Rance may or may not have flipped out over it NOT being a boy color hehe :)  


 
Here it is in COLOR :)

 
 
Wyatt thoroughly enjoyed himself too :)










Just recently Rance, Jayden and I met up with some of Rance's college friends on a Saturday at the Botanical Gardens in Asheville.  THIS WAS SUCH A LOVELY TIME!  I actually feel like I have known this group of friends my entire life and enjoy being with them so much.  I must admit - Chad & Christy's little boy Grayson stole my heart the first time I met him and I thoroughly enjoyed seeing him again.  It was so nice catching up on what the Lord is doing in each of our lives and specifically where He is leading each family. 

We actually had 5 little boys in the group and a little girl on the way (due in July). 




 
 

 
Jayden was POOPED afterwards!!!!!!





Monday, June 1, 2015

*A dump of weekend fun*

A recap of weekend before last:

It's official - a couple of Friday nights ago, I went on my FIRST mom's night out.  This has actually been planned since October of last year when I found out that Pitch Perfect 2 would be coming out May 15th.  I decided then that I was going to the movies that night somehow, some way and IT HAPPENED. 

The evening started out with dinner in Bryson City at the Filling Station which was DELICIOUS.  Then, we headed to Cherokee for the 7:30 movie and laughed until we hurt.

Spending a Friday night with my best friends and Fat Amy is simply lovely!



 
 
Best friends (and Jasmine is not a mom by the way but she did want to join mom's night out!!!!!!!!!!!!)


 
 
On Saturday, May 16th, we had a baby party to celebrate Josie Grace Thacker!!!  We partied hard over morning brunch and are so excited to welcome a baby girl to the mix.  Josie is due June 9th so we are awaiting her arrival any day now.